hi and welcome to PC> i'm so glad you came back. it sounds as if you could use some caring support right now.

we all have times when we feel that others will think we're faking or just crazy or "it's all in your head"....that was my first husband's mantra....

it takes courage to come post here and i think you can use the same courage to pick that phone up and call someone for help. i'm a substance abuse counselor and no one ever came to me knowing exactly what was "wrong" with them the first time. it takes a lot of talking and thinking to get to the bottom of things. just the fact that you know you need help is the first step.

try to find your husband some reading materials, after you've been to see a therapist.......if another person hasn't had depression/anxiety, etc., they don't understand what we go through.

good luck and keep us updated. xoxoxo pat