Okay, thanks for your opinions! I guess I will! It's not like this e-mail will be out of the blue- she did ask for the letter, and technically she brought up e-mail months ago. And okay, I'll try to be as open as possible. It kind of stinks that I won't get her reaction to what I say until January, but at least I'll know I opened up as much as I could. And who knows? Maybe she'll surprise me with a response. But I won't be expecting that.