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Old Feb 04, 2007, 12:25 PM
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Perna Perna is offline
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I concentrate on myself when with a BPD friend. I enjoy helping myself stay "constant" as I can and learn to recognize what are my issues and the other person's, etc. Staying as calm and straight-forward and "true" to myself as I can seems to help the other person.
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