I don't actually really know what made her cry. She didn't do it in front of me. She held herself together and returned to the office before bursting out into tears. My T was in the office and she hunted me down and asked what happened because she instructed her to talk to me and then she comes back in tears. I can be a bit abrasive so her assuming that I tore into her wasn't a crazy assumption. I told her what happened, T thought her reaction was odd, we went and talked to her and I guess everything is fine. T a,nd I briefly talked about that today and neither one of us can figure out why what I said made her react like that. I must have said something and I don't remember it or she has her own problems. I don't know. Anyway, I have very little issue putting my foot down.[/QUOTE]

Good evening,

I see relationships being triangulated. In my experience it rarely ends well..... all involved can get hurt. Hoping it doesn't happen in this situation.

Sabra