Since I was trying not to describe the person I left out that it isn't their house I visit, but that they live there. I can not cut ties to the owner that owns the house because I rely on them for occasional financial support and the owner has a strong desire to see me every so often because we are family. The person that tries to call me out lives there and generally isn't home, but sometimes this person is so it's hard to always avoid them. I had avoid this person for many years in an attempt to cut ties, but it has caused conflict with other family members thinking that I am cruel for no apparent reason and my family believes that I have certain obligations to fulfill since I am older such as helping this person.

No, I do not cause any misconduct anymore. I'm trying to better myself to have a more successful life and to avoid conflict with other people.