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Originally Posted by amee200
If a client has desires or beliefs that are against the law then the T in no way has to, or should, agree with them. They don't have to report a client for having "bad" desires (like a T who treats a pedophile) but they do have to report someone who has expressed plans to ACT on those desires. That's part if the training since more often than not Ts have clients who's belief system is very different than their own. Some Ts will refer certain clients out who have beliefs or traits that they just can't get past.
This is part of the reason Ts keep their personal beliefs to themselves too, since it can happen in the reverse. A t might believe in something totally legal but against your personal belief system. If a client finds out it can change the whole dynamic for the worse.
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I think this is more what I may have been getting at. I think the issue for me is that I have a certain set of morals that T does not share and she is teaching against my own beliefs. I know she doesn't mean to, but it creates problems for the whole relationship. At this point I am not sure what to do because my T is so incredibly important to me and I love her to death. I am not willing to go through finding another T because I know I will never find one that is as helpful as her on most issues I have. What do you guys think I should do? I can't just give up my own beliefs, but I also am in no position to correct what she is telling me. I am quite confused at this point :P