I dont think this is a morality issue for ts, as much as it is a responsibility issue for the client. Youre kind of blaming the problem on your beliefs. You want to know how other people deal with it. Hey, maybe some people have a naturally lower sex drive and arent bothered that much. Maybe other people lie. Whatever. Back to the issue of responsibility. If you would turn the responsibility for your sex life over to your religion and your beliefs, i would ask, where else have you abdicated responsibility? Maybe if you reexamine those other parts of your life, it might help you deal with this situation. Not necessarily change your choices, but take responsibility for them.