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Originally Posted by lightinthesky
I thought I would make a "don't list" for my future relationship as a guide for things I think I shouldn't do after my experience with a man. What do you think?
Don't let him to take care of you when you are sick.
Don't run to him every time someone make you upset. ( next time you are in trouble you will find it hard to deal with it on your own).
Don't cry in front of him.
Don't dream about your future together. (It might not be there for you).
Don't tell him that without him living won't make any sense.
Don't make him a center of your world.
Don't separate from your friends.
Don't forget who you are on your own.
Don't get attached to his family.
Don't let him too close, keep the distance.
Don't get too many "reminders".
Don't believe everything he say.
Don't let yourself depend on him.
Don't cheat.
Don't use his perfume when he is away.
Don't wear his clothes.
Don't put your arm on his heart while he is asleep.
Don't get a pet together.
Don't move in together.
Don't put your hopes up.
Don't forgive more than once.
Don't try and fix a drug addict.
Don't let him to have unlimited power over you.
Don't think of him as your partner, future father of your kids.
Don't care about him more than you care about yourself.
Don't say you love until you are sure he loves you.
Don't love more than he does.
What do you think?
Do you have your own list?
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Honestly this sounds like a very bitter list. I mean IMO you should never NOT do anything that your heart leads you to do if you are in love with someone but... that being said, don't do it hastily before you're sure you have something solid. I wouldn't say DON'T to any of that stuff but I would say ease into it.. which is what we all should do.
Related to my recent mini heartbreak (mini because I was starting to obsess but never completely consumed, thank god) I could easily say some similar things but I choose to instead "guard" my heart, but not close it.
I hope that you understand I'm saying don't give up, just be more careful and a bit more conservative, at first.
Live and love with passion hun. Don't hold back. If you hide yourself or harden your heart, you'll miss the good ones. Plus nothing worth having is without sacrifice and risk. Love, for me, is worth all the risk, even after all the times I've been broken and thrown out of the proverbial moving car.
Hope this helps.
S4