Honestly this sounds like a very bitter list. I mean IMO you should never NOT do anything that your heart leads you to do if you are in love with someone but... that being said, don't do it hastily before you're sure you have something solid. I wouldn't say DON'T to any of that stuff but I would say ease into it.. which is what we all should do.

Related to my recent mini heartbreak (mini because I was starting to obsess but never completely consumed, thank god) I could easily say some similar things but I choose to instead "guard" my heart, but not close it.

I hope that you understand I'm saying don't give up, just be more careful and a bit more conservative, at first.

Live and love with passion hun. Don't hold back. If you hide yourself or harden your heart, you'll miss the good ones. Plus nothing worth having is without sacrifice and risk. Love, for me, is worth all the risk, even after all the times I've been broken and thrown out of the proverbial moving car.

Hope this helps.
S4