As I've said sort of earliler, I'm not talkign about lying, deceiving or misleading. I'm just talking about being less "gung ho" when a girl flirts or shows interest. That isn't misleading. That's being more controlled.

If the right one. I'm not sure I entirely believe in that thought. The right one as in "the one" escapes me because love is a choice we make. I don't think theres any kind of esoteric magic that happens nor some fantastically perfect soul mate out there for me anymore than I think I'm going to go into the woods and find a unicorn.