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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
I'm not sure that my original post implied that women all want the same thing. That's a very big jump. There are certain generalizations in societal norms that are common to genders even as we are all unique and there are of course exceptions to the rules.
I do appreciate the complexity of women or I should say people. None are alike, but in certain ways we are all similar too. In one way, males, generally can be and are more visually attracted to women whereas women are emotionally attracted. Again there are exceptions and different levels of this but these are true in my experience. Does that make me sound like I think all males or females are the same? If so, I think that you have missed my point.
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Anyway I'm just wondering, especially from the ladies, is this more attractive to women, for a guy to just kind of "not care"? That is without being rude or cocky.
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You're asking for a formula... How should I behave...before any consideration of who she is.
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Every woman, I think, wants to be special, unique,change man's world, once we (well I do) feel like we are "one of the others" (many others) it damages something inside us and talking about only me, would push away, far away.
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Anything that starts with "every woman" is not treating them as an individual.
Every woman wants to "Change a mans world"? That is an expectation before you have even started the relationship. If that is truly how you think it isn't going to go very far.