Hunter-
You are not alone. You spoke your story and it was mine as well. I have lost my career, I have had no "real" adult relationships, (I am 34 and NOT ugly) My home is a disaster. For the longest time I didn't know why I was such and outcast. I would go to social events and say stupid things etc...I was diagnosed at 28. I am now on medications and I can function better. But, like I told my doctor I cannot organize my life yet and he said that we adapt to our malfunctioning brain and we have to learn all over again new ways of handling/doing things. Get some ADHD/ADD help and best wishes! From one ADDer to another!
Adrienne