Hi,

I do understand your concerns. I'd love to give you a guarantee, but there is no such thing in life. Maybe she'll need med adjustments someday. Maybe she'll have another rough time someday.

Can you guarantee that you are going to stay healthy for the rest of your life? Of course not. Would you expect her not to want to be with you if you became ill? Of course not.

Enjoy the good times, work through the bad times. That's life and it sounds like you've got a pretty good one going. I applaud your friend for being upfront and honest with you about her previous illness. It's sounds like you've got a keeper to me.

I wish you well,

January