I watch porn alone, and with my H. My T had even inquired if we had watched pron in an attempt to help things in the bed room. We both shook our heads yes and she took that as a YES and we don't want to talk about it.

It has been used by us both together. It was helpful to be able to explain to my H what I would like to try or what I do need that I am not getting. He is not offended that I have been known to watch it alone, and I am not bothered if he watches it alone. We both agree that if it comes down to either of us not wanting to do it with each other and choosing to watch porn rather then have sex with one another then someone needs to stop watching it.

My T has stated that it is ok (not recommended ) but it is understandable that I would choose to see soft core porn. I don't have a very good relationship with sexuality have been abused sexually ,to say the least, in the past. And this is a good way to see what is acceptable, and to see what males and females should do. And what the out come should be. It has helped me considerably to become more emotionally safe with sex.

I choose not to watch anything hard core or rough. I prefer female friendly soft core. I know it is only acting, but it helps to see consensual heterosexual sex.