Well I for one have no sex drive and 3 children. You don't have to have a sex drive to have kids, you just have to have sex. I have been sexually abused in the past, and sex is not something I am terribly fond of. I just dissociate and next thing ya know it is over. Not the best way to handle things for sure, but it is what is going on at the moment. I am currently in T for this by the way.

I requested a female OB-GYN one who was not skinny because I didn't want to be be littled for being a Big Girl. I found one and she was a nurse practitioner which was fine with me. When it came time to see all the Dr's in the practice, I opted out and choose not to have every man in the place touch my vagina.

I pass out every time they draw blood, preggy or not. It is just something I do. I tell them in advance "look this is what happens" They get the orange juice ready for me to drink and they take my blood laying down and I pass out anyway but at least I don't fall into the floor. So don't worry about that one.

I have depression. I only had post postpartum depression with my last child. She was a surprise and I struggled very much with having another child when I was done. God was not done, I was. Now she is 6 and she and I are great. I did put something on here about post postpartum depression in the depression forum. I wouldn't read much from there. It would only makes concerns worse in my opinion. They have classes for those who anticipate postpartum depression or for those who have had it with a previous pregnancy. Because it does ten to repeat itself. But again I am on child number 3 and I only had it with one child.

If you are well prepared then there is nothing to worry about.