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Originally Posted by quietfeline
No more chances, already gave him two. Flaked on both. Heard NOTHING from him, jerk. I am not contacting him, eff that he should be reaching out to me and at least apologizing for wasting my time etc.
I don't understand...why not just say it like it is. I hate games.
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A similar thing happened to me too, although we didn't even get past the first date. And the thing was, I would initiate all of the contact between us, so when I stopped trying to talk to him, it was like I literally didn't exist to him anymore. I mean, he won't even look at me if we're in the same room…. I was thinking that he was just really shy, but so am I. I haven't had a chance to talk to him about it yet though…I will foolishly continue to give him the benefit of the doubt.
But if it was all just a game, why?! If people want to feel attractive, just go do some innocent flirting. Why break someone's heart along the way? I'm someone who never goes on dates ever, so this was a big deal for me. And if you don't like someone that way, don't lead them on…that's just cruel. But I'm preaching to the choir….
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Originally Posted by Elektra_
now u should play a game with him too  make him chase u... dont make urself available, dont give him any chance and ull see how he reacts..
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The reply to this (at least for me) is completely ignoring me. And isn't that just playing games too? That's why I know I need to have a frank and honest conversation with this guy, just so all games (if there are any) are resolved.