Yes, games ARE juvenile. And they also make no sense to me. I suppose I'm sort of picky, but I'm simply someone who isn't pursued and that's why I never date. I also am too shy to pursue that often, so nothing ever happens.

I'm only giving this guy a second chance because I have a very strong feeling that he is shy or was very hurt in the past and I want to give him a chance to explain his side of the story if he so chooses. I also said a few things that may have raised some red flags and may need to be discussed, so all of this may have been caused by something I said. If I didn't sense something was off, I would just say screw him and move on with my life. You really don't have to give him another chance unless you strongly suspect there's a legitimate reason behind the behavior.