I feel the same way.

Not trying to be rude or start a fight, but in response to S4's last post and to Healing's post, but I don't feel like thinking positive and having a large list of needs is something reasonable to expect outside of dreams.

Hell, if I had a need's list, I feel like all I could ask for is:
Please don't hurt me.
At least pretend to listen to what I say and bonus points for actually listening to what I say. Extra super bonus points for actually thinking anything I say matters. Or just pretend and I'll imagine you care.
Don't make me feel stupid and/or inadequate at what I do. Or at least not on purpose. I'm sure you'll do it by accident but I'll just get over it.
Please don't call me names.
Don't guilt me into doing something I don't want to do.

I don't think that's asking too much. I hope not anyway.