these are the lyrics to an amazingly beautiful song about losing the one you love... i so relate

-simple together-
you've been my golden best friend
and now with post-demise at hand
i can't go to you for consolation
because we're off limits during this transition
this grief overwhelms me, it burns in my stomach
and i can't stop bumping into things
i thought we'd be simple together
i thought we'd be happy together
thought we'd be limitless together
i thought we'd be precious together
but i was sadly mistaken
you've been my soulmate and then some
i remembered you the moment i met you
with you i knew God's face was handsome
with you i saw fun and expansion
this loss is numbing me, it pierces my chest
and i can't stop dropping everything
i thought we'd be sexy together
thought we'd be evolving together
i thought we'd have children together
i thought we'd be family together
but i was sadly mistaken
if i had a bill for all the philosophies i shared
if i had a penny for all the possibilities i presented
if i had a dime for every hand thrown up in the air
my wealth would render this no less severe
i thought we'd be genius together
i thought we'd be healing together
i thought we'd be growing together
thought we'd be advent'rous together
but i was sadly mistaken
thought we'd be exploring together
thought we'd be inspired together
i thought we'd be flying together
thought we'd be on fire together
but i was sadly mistaken

(by Alanis Morissette, from "Feast on Scraps")

comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable