I'm married..not sure I believe anyone is "normal" (whatever that means)

I've been dxd with Avoidant personality (?) and my spouse has not ... He avoids conflict more than I do ...

He's a lovely person

I relate to the very very low self esteem (and massive anxiety ) of being "avoidant"

PM me if you feel like it (sometimes I talk more in PMs )

Interesting post, thanks