Also, with respect to your feelings on this thread, yea I get that...

Sometimes I feel the same way with the whole gender thing, but, and I don't mean to sound ignorant at all, don't generalizations exist on some level that we cannot escape? How wrong am i if I like being "clumped" sometimes? Akkk, ya, I can feel one way about it and then another depending on the situation....

yes, we are all just people and it's hard not to see through generalizations even if they are not considered "negative". I think our brains revert to that way of thinking to sort info in a way, whether to justify our stance or just make us feel like we belong.