Does anyone else have a hard time controlling urges towards things that are seen negatively as society? How do you control these, if you do at all? When someone bothers me, for whatever reason I always have the urge to either screw with them, or get back at them depending on the situation. Lately I've been having a lot of problems with certain people, and really all I can think about is destroying as much of them and what they have as I can. Does anyone have any advice on ways to control this temptation? Any ways to either do this in a way that won't end up with negative consequences for me? Advice on how to even possibly rationalize something like this as irrational (I know that probably makes no sense, I mean a way to make myself stop believing that something like hurting others is a good idea. I really have no problem doing something like this except for the negative repercussions it would have on me and my desires.
Thanks,
Matt