I'm having a lot of the same problems- it seems like I've been pushing my husband away because I'm so desperate not to lose him. Lately, I've felt threatened and so I feel like I've been annoyingly clingy. I don't know how to stop being this way even though i know better. I'm looking for a therapist to no avail so far, and have taken the advice that people posted to you here.

Hope you feel better.