(I didnt know exactly where to put this, so move it wherever appropriate)

My aunt is getting much much worse. She has brain cancer (and had lung cancer as well - mostly gone now they think) and the drugs that she's on are really taking a toll on her... I just got an email from my dad with this in it (and some other stuff):

"You can expect a telephone call anytime now that she has died, as she is now in palative care and she is regressing every time you see her."

My dad really needs to learn that telling me like that is NOT a good thing.

this isn't fair.

Any good thoughts and prayers very much appreciated, just that if this is her time to go that it happens before she gets any worse.

I feel so useless, I can't help my dad (it's his sister) or anyone right now ...