I am very sorry that you are in this perdicament. I am pretty sure its the drugs talking and inside is a desperate man who needs alot of help. Sometimes when a person refuses treatment there is not much a person can do. Make sure you are taking care of yourself and are not putting yourself in a dangerous situation. Maybe have him talk to someone who the "spirits" say is good. That way he trusts them. Get the person to say that he needs to get help. He may not be listening to you because he got it in his head you stole something. Maybe you could find a rehab program that finds him a threat to himself and society and commit him..i dont know much aabout it but pm me anytime if you need a friend. Good luck, my prayers and thoughts are with you.