No I was never on disability as my hubby works. Also I was working through most of my illness except 3 months at my worst that I took off and that period of unemployment before and during my pregnancy. If I could of got a job then I would of but there were none that got past an interview. It's a tough job market where I live at the moment.

In the end you get to decide how to live your life not your therapist. But a wise person does listen to those around them and then makes a considered decision.

What does your partner think about having kids? You really need a supportive partner.

Hugs....