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Hi, sorry to hear that guy is running hot and cold. Only time will tell for sure what his real intentions are. The fact that he flaked on you twice is a bad sign though. Be careful. Anyways, NEVER answer ANY guys texts or calls all the time or right away.
Most men love the chase, and women who seem to easy to get are not a challenge to him. Also, if you give him to many chances or are to eager to respond to him all the time, you can come across as desperate. You need to let a man know that you have your own life to remain interesting to him.
Nice girls finish last most of the time. There is this book called "Why Men Love *****es" that is hilarious and very true! A lot of men will see how much bad behavior will be tolerated.
The book explains why they do this. They don't respect or go crazy for nice girls most of the time. The book isn't about becoming a nasty woman though. The word ***** stands for:
Babe
In
Total
Control of
Her life
There is another book by the authour, Sherry Argov called "Why Men Marry *****es" that is also hilarious and true.
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