I'm going to ask him when I see him on Monday. I wonder if he would treat them differently if they were younger (My mum was very angry and unpredictable and my Dad used to mistreat me and occasionally hit me/throw me across the room, then all of the above plus sexual abuse when i was a teenager by an older man, so the others are 15/16, not 5/6/8/whatever). I think the DDNOS rather than DID diagnosis accounts for the above. I think he thinks I've just made it up because I was not sexually abused before the age of 5...which seems to be the default "reason" for DID in the literature.