we do have to lose the kind of friendship that we have. it was always colored by romantic undertones, inside jokes (often semi-romantic), and being eachother's best friend of the opposite sex. trust me if i had a husband, i would NOT allow a friend like me to stay around. you ever watch dawson's creek? we're kind of like dawson and the brown-haired girl (is is joey?).

comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable