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Originally Posted by quietfeline
I get what you're saying shy introvert. I don't respond to him right away and have not been available all the time. He tried to make last minute plans with me last Friday and I said no (I actually did have plans).
But yeah, the flaking twice bothers me but whatever. Just have to wait and see what happens. Not holding my breath that''s for sure  |
Well, the fact that he's still at least trying to make plans seems to be a good sign. I can't say whether he's still playing games or not, but at least he has some amount of interest in you.
When I stopped texting the guy I was talking to, he never talked to me again. I'm still hoping to have a conversation in real life to figure out what's going on or get some closure. Although, so far in real life, I have ceased to exist to him apparently. I didn't realize that I had to put in 100% of the effort to even start a relationship or to get a date…seems a bit unfair. All I know is that for me, playing "hard to get" translates to "why bother with her when there's much easier girls?" I guess you just have to be easy (I'm not saying sexually mind you) and just serve yourself on a silver platter repeatedly so they don't forget you exist. I wonder if he even still remembers my name?