Hello Girl,
I can't imagine how you feel,but try to
get your head around this: It is called 'the part of,
whole of error'. What that means is,we are all too
complicated and diverse to be defined by any one
thing or situation or person.
In other words,without
minimising it in any way,this is a PART OF YOU
not ALL of you! This is what we do;something
happens to us and we give ALL of ourselves to it,
when in reality it is a PART of us.
Also, please have
look at this site, self-compassion.org and give it to
self.
Deepest Respect,
BLUEDOVE