No one should tell you whether or not you can/should have children. If they feel you can work then you can have children with support. go to an partial hospitalization program or intensive out patent program. When you have children you can get a letter saying that the child should be in daycare and the county will help pay for it if need be. I took an intensive Lamaze class that included basic care. I took an awesome baby sitting course as a kid. I ended up treating my son like I was babysitting when I was depressed and a room mate as he got older. I'm only a good parent because I am only a babysitter. You can do it.