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Old Dec 23, 2013, 02:36 AM
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Originally Posted by Raging Quiet View Post
I know the obvious answer is to get another T, but I've had enough of anything therapy related after seeing my t on and off for 6 years.

We just seem to have normal conversations with her opinions. She doesn't paraphrase or summarise in sessions and often doesn't mind if I leave in a regressed state. Yet, I'm so attached to her and she knows that.

She just isn't empathic and says a lot of things that make me leave feeling angry with how the session went. She isn't supportive of my IVF treatment; she's basically invalidates all my feelings. When I try to leave therapy altogether, she sort of wont let it be easy for me to.

Sorry to rant on, I'm literally split between leaving and staying.

Has anyone here had a therapist who lost their empathy? How did you get it back? How did you change this?
I got to this point with Madame T, and as everyone knows, I quit and put the blame on her.

I believe, if a T constantly fails in empathy, she deserves to be dumped.
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