My T is very open to discussing transference.....I find it very difficult. But I have all kinds of conflicting feelings going on regarding my T. I have found it easier to talk about my anger than the attachment, although still very difficult to be so angry at my T. He strongly encourages me to talk about it but I find it incredibly embarrassing, and sometimes I worry that I will misplace my trust in him and then he will pull the rug out from under me.
I think transference is very very challenging to resolve and I'm hoping and praying it doesn't go on too much longer. I try my best to bring it into the therapy room to talk about it and work through it. I'm just hoping it isn't there still when it comes time for me to leave.....
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