Well I woke up several times last night in pain. I am now having severe cramps worse than my usual menstral cramps.

Talked to my mom last night, she said she thought it sounded like a UTI and that I should go to urgent care today. I questioned it being a UTI because it does not hurt when I pee. And would a UTI have cramps? I didn't tell her it happened after masterbating, she would have lectured me that I was sinning. I just don't know that urgent care would be able to help me, I would hate to go there first and pay for a visit only to be told to go to a specialist because they do not know what it wrong.

But what are my chances at getting into a gyn same day that I call when I am a new patient? I am worried. I could almost kick myself now that I never had a regular doctor since I am been on my own, so there is no one to call when stuff like this happens. Maybe this will cause me to be more proactive in the future.

I checked my insurance website there are 7 ob-gyns in my area accepting new patients (6 male, 1 female). I am not comfortable with female doctors for some reason unknown to me, I just would rather see a male. I guess it goes to my childhood and that fact that all the female doctors I had were not very gentle and had poor bedside manner. Most of the offices open at 8, so I will call then. It's only 2 numbers to call as most of them are in the same building as partners. I could care less about who to choose right now, I will take whoever can fit me in...I just want some relief.