I had a talk with her about me. She doesn't know about Asperger's, and I don't plan to tell her; I'm only giving her hints, maybe that way she'll get off me and leave me be. But she refuses to believe I was born this way, it's not something made by the unhealthy environment I grew up in like she claims. Perhaps the environment did some changes too, but no significant ones. She keeps saying the reason I don't like spending time socialising is because, as a kid, I couldn't do that very often, etc. It really made me angry and hostile and I'm struggling to calm down.
Do you have similar conversations? How do you manage them?