Thank you Innerzone. I have heard of it before but never had anyone explain it to me. I will check it out. I doubt, though that calling me the B word is love in any language... I will check it out and maybe my husband would look into it too. He tends to not care about that kind of stuff but maybe if I can get our T to present it to him somehow...

I really am at the end of my rope and have my doubts but I am willing to try it for the kids' sake.