Yes it makes sense, I will admit, I can be a bit too nice as well and I have worked on that, everyone can. But I definitely don't hang out with people if I don't want to. I think their mindset is that they just don't want to be rude, but whether they realize it or not, pretending to want me around when they clearly don't want me actually causes more harm than good, and can be considered leading someone on and is a form of rudeness.