I agree with everyone else, that it's just fine. I find that my automatic reminders her office sends a few days before an appt. are quite comforting even though they say absolutely nothing except "You have an appt. with Mrs. T on X-day @ X-time." Also, like someone stated before, although I don't have a voicemail from her, I do have a boat load of emails from her (about 25) that I reread (i've mentioned it before to her as well) when I need comforting because I miss her or reassurance that she is not going to "abandon" me. No harm, no foul.