As Doc Clyde says, we are all guilty of overanalysing and over thinking. The happiest people are those that just go with the flow and take life as it comes. ' the fool on the hill' if you like. I don't see why you need to go to a counsellor for something that seems entirely natural and normal to me. Leave that for when you get older and life really xxxx's ( mucks ) you up. kidding. What if she finds out. Finds out what?. What if north Korea launches a nuclear weapon. What if you get cancer. Don't think in 'what if's'. Down that route madness lies. If that's a deal breaker in a relationship, the relationship isn't worth it anyway.