I understand 15LRC. I see it alot too. Not just to me and thats where I have come to that conclusion. I watched an ex co worker pop by and people act like they are pleased to see her, she then suggests they all meet for a drink, they all say `god yeah, love to, just txt when' and guess what, nothing happened, they arent bothering, theyll never meet her. People are very often falsely friendly. I think they learn to be like this so no one thinks they are not nice and avoid confrontation unyet eventually they get sussed out. I also though agree with all that Healingforme has said, the powerplay bit is very possible. Dont let it upset you too much... I also see some boring rotten folk be the ones every one wants around, kissing xxx of course as it gets them something.