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Originally Posted by Citrine
I understand 15LRC. I see it alot too. Not just to me and thats where I have come to that conclusion. I watched an ex co worker pop by and people act like they are pleased to see her, she then suggests they all meet for a drink, they all say `god yeah, love to, just txt when' and guess what, nothing happened, they arent bothering, theyll never meet her. People are very often falsely friendly. I think they learn to be like this so no one thinks they are not nice and avoid confrontation unyet eventually they get sussed out. I also though agree with all that Healingforme has said, the powerplay bit is very possible. Dont let it upset you too much... I also see some boring rotten folk be the ones every one wants around, kissing xxx of course as it gets them something.
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Totally agree with you, and thinking about it, I have seen it happen to other people as well. It seems to happen to me more but yeah, I've seen it happen to other people while I watch from the sidelines. And even a couple of times I would be like, um, you don't like that person so why are you inviting that person? And the other person would respond by saying they would feel bad if they didn't invite them or felt like they had to. I agree, people are falsely nice, and that's when trouble can arise. I once got labeled as a creep because I had no idea that someone didn't like me, they were so good at making it look like we were great friends when in fact this person pitied me the whole time and didn't like me one bit. I'm afraid of stuff like that happening again because I could be talking to someone and annoying the crap out of them and I won't know a thing about it. It is sad about how falsely nice people can be, they don't understand they are actually doing more harm than good and when I see this happen to other people, I feel so bad for them and sometimes even feel tempted to tell them the truth.