The attachment that brought my BPD to the surface. He was angry and refused to talk to me or text with me and hung up when I called which lead to severe abandonment issues coming out. I went to his house, banged on the window. I pretended to leave and when the door opened I attempted to barge in the house. I didn't leave until they called the cops on me, who forced me to leave. It was this incident that convinced me to leave. He threatened me with a restraining order and harassment charges and I knew if I stayed I'd eventually be arrested.