How ridiculous! To be treated as such for something like that...you've lost nothing in those idiots.

I don't particularly see the stigma in being a virgin as a male. Yeah, the pressure to punch the "v-card" is rather immense, but I don't see why it's held in poor regard if you choose to wait for that first time to mean something aside from "that one chick back in high school/college/at the office."