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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Payback?! Who is he to get a free pass?! Who is he, to get off without any blame for the breakdown in your relationship? It takes two, not one!! You were 18, how fresh into your relationship with him, were you? And who is he to carry around a grudge?
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Yeah.. Once I found out that at the moment when we just moved in into our new apartment, he was flirting for weeks with some girls from Facebook (she was an often guest at his work), on the valentines day he asked her out but she said she is busy, once I found out it we had a fight and even then he said "you don't know what it feels like when someone betrays you" but because I found out at the start of their game, nothing more happened, few months after he started flirting and chatting to a new girl from work, they went on a few dates, kissed. It was too late when I found out about them, at that second time he told me "i wanted to pay you back and even then I couldn't sleep with someone like you did", I asked him WHY did you have to wait 3 years to pay me back? Why now when our life is only moving forward? How long were you gonna have her on the side? He said it is a mistakes and he was always feeling hurt and wanted me to know how it feels. I asked him once, do what you have to do for once and let's get it over with, hurt me as much as you like so we can live happy.
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