If what you mentioned is true. Being bubbly doesn't take one very far into sustainable depth of relationship. Then, am really doing it all wrong for X number of years. But from my perspective, what's the point of wobbling in a state of seriousness or misery all the tme. Only to make yourself truely unhappy? No wonder, there's so much people with mental conditions in the developed world.

If this is how people think they should be 99% of the time. I rather cut myself off from the world besides work. I do agree one shouldn't be all bubbly 99% but least 70% should be enough. I see no point living in a world like that, screw them all.