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Omg. You dont have to wait until that old lady is dead to stop putting up with her abuse. I want to tell her to just shut up. Thats how my mother would talk to me. "Oh im worried about your being heavy, i have a right." Yeah you have the right to STFU. Cant you drive her home or leave when she starts talking like that? Boundaries, girl. This was why one of the hardest units in DBT group was when we went around the room and just said "no".