I liked this guy on and off since my freshmen year in high school. I am pretty sure he liked me in freshman year as well and know for a fact he liked me a lot junior years since he asked me to a movie and tried to hold me hand once in the hallway. I freaked out and rejected his advances (in a kind way). It turns out I have Borderline which explains some of it.

We are both 19 and haven't seen each other since we were 16. We have had sporadic phone calls/texts/Facebook messages which are always initiated by me. I honestly don't mind this since he always sounds glad to hear from me. It's not small talk, but we aren't sharing deep secrets.

He's in town for the holidays and I asked him out to a movie. We will probably eat after. He accepted and seemed happy about it via text. I know people with Asperger's may not appreciate touching, but I would really like to hold his hand and hug, maybe kiss if the mood is right, as I have wanted to do for years. I just don't want to make him uncomfortable.

I would appreciate Some input as to how I should approach this situation. The last thing I want to do is cross a line, but I want to make my message clear.