my word for the day/week/month/year:

attunement

i've been reading Schore and I am %#@&#! BLOWN AWAY
OMG!!!!!
i cried and cried and cried and cried

attunement

i don't think you are asking too much echoes
i realy really really really really really don't
so i guess the million dollar question is:
will your therapist provide it for you
OR
will you have to thank her very much for all she has helped you with and...
find someone who is prepared to offer you what you have identified with needing?
personally...
i really don't think you are asking too much
((((((((((echoes))))))))))