I watch girls deepthroat in porn, then masturbate to the fantasy of men deepthroating via my strap-on. For whatever reason, watching men deepthroating in porn just doesn't do it for me because you are absolutely right, it is very degrading and that is what actually makes it hot and I like the way that men treat girls when they deepthroat, so there is still femdom involved when I do the same things in my fantasies when I masturbate.

Does that make any sense?